Staring Mortality in the Face

Some months back, as I was about to leave the house for a 30-minute drive to a church where I was the guest minister, the name of an elderly client appeared on my phone. Not only are these folks clients, but they have been dear friends of mine for over 25 years. “We had to put John in the hospital yesterday and I wanted you to know.” I had recently shared lunch with him, so …

Sibling Conflict, Part II

So, what can we do to bring healing to sibling conflict? First, accountability is a must. As Michelle and I talked more, I learned that her sister was not giving Michelle a regular summary of her mother’s income and expenses.  Secrecy creates mistrust and fuels misunderstanding which ultimately leads to conflict. Most conflict can be managed or avoided when siblings choose to be open with each other.  No secrets! Second, successful sibling relationships check in …