Welcome! Thank you for visiting Advisor in the House, where I share with you insights gleaned from over forty years of personal and professional interactions with others. I encourage you to join the discussion. Please share your thoughts and experiences. Ask questions. Think. Feel. Imagine your practice transformed!
It took a bit of coaxing and patience, but three weeks ago, Kathie and I received “Santa’s List” from our grandchildren’s parents. Gift lists look different than what we once scribbled on dog-eared index cards. With our family, the parents created an on-line document they shared with the in-laws, aunts, uncles, and yes, the grandparents noting the specifics of what our crown jewels want. It couldn’t be any easier. With “Deck the Halls” droning “tisRead More
With the holidays upon us, we in the financial services business are wrapping up what has been a stellar year in the markets. We have seen double-digit gains in equities indices while managing a difficult fixed income environment. 2016 will be remembered always for the election of Donald Trump as our 45th President after a contentious and often ugly campaign. Some of our clients come to the end of the year with more blessings andRead More
You would think that working with and being around adults most of the time would free us from needing to ask anyone for permission to do anything. With maturity comes autonomy, with autonomy more responsibility, and with both of those, a sense of self-actualization that is freeing, right? Maybe not. Several years ago, a new client stopped by the office to sign a couple of forms. He had, some two years earlier, bid a tough,Read More
The pressure to develop new clients always stares us in the face—normally on Monday morning! As the manager who hired me wisely taught, “new relationships are oxygen to your business.” We all know it and yet the vast majority of advisors in our firm and all firms have zero—that’s 0, nada, no—net growth in any given year. The temptation on a call is to create quick rapport, keeping the other person on the phone,Read More
It’s been a few weeks since I posted a conversation. But, with our national election over, Thanksgiving in the books, and the December holiday season staring us in the face, I realized the wisdom of catching my breath in these waning days of 2016. Call it a pause, a break, a halftime moment to look back, look forward, and look inward. In all candor, on any given day of the week, all of us areRead More
Having a conversation with another person, a give-and-take, back-and-forth exchange that is engaging and genuine is a beautiful thing. The opposite is just as true: attempting a conversation with a guarded, less-than-transparent person is frustrating, close to impossible. Successful advisors are students of conversational dynamics. One aspect of the art form is diagnosing a client who may be unable to be transparent with information vital to your work with them. Why? What keeps us fromRead More
Restaurant owners know what a “reefer” is, but perhaps it’s a new word to you – unless you grew up in the 1960’s. Back in—when I was a teenager—a “reefer” transitioned to a “joint”—think Colorado–but I digress. For those in the food business, a “reefer” is a climate controlled, movable trolley with shelving on which perishable foodstuffs are transported from the distributor to the restaurant. When the truck off loads the raw material for tonight’sRead More
The agenda set for a client meeting is predictable: Anything changed since we last met? Review of recent quarter or the past 6 or 12 months. Re-visit the asset allocation. Any recommended changes? “Good to visit with you. See you next week at the symphony gala”, etc. etc. I deeply believe that no matter the client, the day of the week, or the numbers, people are hearing more voices outside a conversation than any oneRead More
We humans live by story. Our family of origin and extended family, the community where we were reared, faith and education environments, social constructs, music heard and overheard, and scores of other creeks and streams trickle into the river of our lives. And yes, from time to time, some authoritarian voice says something we accept without question, piercing every logical or critical filter we have, taking up permanent residence in our minds. These ideas –Read More
The words “investor” and “fear” seem joined at the hip. One client expresses unconcern with the market reaching new highs while another sits on the sidelines unable to pull the “buy” trigger. The first client is fearful of a pullback, correction, or bear market while the other is afraid she’s missed an upside opportunity that may not show up again for some time. When money is involved, clients feel and manifest any number ofRead More
It is very rare when I discover that a deeply talented A clarion call to lead with purpose, Cadence of Care offers a wise and practical guide to deepening and enriching client relationships.
-Robert B. Seaberg, Ph.D. Intersect Consulting, LLC
Tim Owings understands what all the great ones know. People who trust you are far more important than all the product knowledge in the world.
-Don Connelly, Don Connelly Associates
The concepts Tim Owings shares in his book provide a comprehensive blueprint to integrate into practice.
-Marc D. Miller, Ph.D., Dean of the School of Business, Henderson State University